Where can a young gay guy go to meet other guys in Bucks County?

I'm 24, been living in Bucks County most of my life. I've had one boyfriend, he was adorable and everything seemed perfected for like a year and a half... but of course... it wasn't. I've been trying to move on for almost a year now, but he keeps pulling me back whenever I manage to actually remove him from my life. He's one of those, only appreciates you when you're gone types. But sadly he's the only thing close to a gay friend that I have, and he lives really near by. WHERE CAN I GO TO MEET OTHER GUYS!? I'm not interested in just hooking up really, I want to meet nice quality guys to either form friendships with or possibly a relationship. And yes Philly is pretty close, I'm not a big city guy but I know there's things there. But I'm not into clubs, and I don't drink so bars just seem a bit awkward. It's very hard to find a guy that's a good match for me at those sorts of places, I need someone a little more mellow who I don't have to worry will be off in philly grinding on strangers every week. But I know lots of other gay guys feel the same way, they're just so hard to find because there aren't really any social places for guys to meet other than those sorts of things. At least if there are I don't know them, any suggestions? In Bucks County near Yardley would be great but if there's places in Philly too I could manage that easy. Thanks!